Again

I hit something tonight. Hard. It felt really, really good. So I did it again, and again, until my hand hurt. How one individual can be so unhappy based on the swirling of a few extra hormones is beyond me.

Stethoscope

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I'm staring up at the ceiling, listening to my heart beat. It sounds loud in my ears, the surge rising and falling in time with my breathing. I'm sure I'd look ridiculous to a passerby, lying completely still in a sprawled heap, the stethoscope running from my ears to my own chest.

It's midnight again.

It's good to know that there is one thing about me that is relatively constant, that won't shift with every changing mood, something that will always be sounding in my ears every single moment of my life. Steady.

Do you know what it's like when your own body betrays you? The moment your heart begins to skip furtively, erratically, and every cell and nerve catch their breath and freeze, focused on that faltering beat, willing it onward, ever onward, until it continues as it ever did.

Emotions do that, too.

They trip me up. There's that same rise and fall, these colors that stain everyday life and make it rich and vibrant, and the tide that carries them. Highs and lows, they're all familiar.

But emotions aren't always welcome. Some are ugly enough to make me catch my breath and freeze, willing them away, ashamed at them, rejecting the dark nature of such things. But you can't do that, can you? Emotion doesn't work that way. You can work with it, and around it, and sometimes reason it down to something manageable. But you cannot reject it altogether.

I've spent enough time wrestling with myself in dark playgrounds and shadowed roads to accept this. It sounds right, somehow, but every once in a while I find myself right back on those swings, in the dark, struggling. Waiting for something. And probably -sighs- dramatizing this just a bit much.

So. It's past twelve on a Friday night, and I'm tired, and it's too quiet. Lately I've been something of an insomniac...still waiting, I suppose.  I tend to make my surroundings fit what I feel, and this time of night just about does it. Everybody has their own demons, and this is when mine come out to play. But, I think I'll fight it tonight. After all, I've got a good imagination, and I might as well put it to use.

*Caution--content may be disjointed and sloppy to to intrusion of stethoscope between keyboard, fingers, and brain.

Mood

Days where I go to bed feeling the hours were wasted. Days where I feel useless, stuck in a script I didn't write, and lacking the initiative to redesign the parts I can change. I feel scorn for myself, on these days.

Just down, tonight. Unhappy, dark. Yes, dark--that's a good way to describe it. After days without people, nights without sleep, mornings without excitement, and sleep without dreams, I'm darkness and restlessness. I'm a nightmare waiting to saunter through the fractured fragments of the next few hours. I'm dissatistifaction and anger simmering over the last chapter of a book I've been looking forward to reading, and raging with the feelings it evoked. I'm a deep hunger to connect and see, be seen, be heard beyond the superficial. And I'm solitary, matching my surroundings to myself.

I am all of these emotions, and more beyond naming. And at the end of it, I am simply tired, and unwilling to fall asleep alone in an empty room.

Purple

Roses are red, violets are blue

(except they’re not—they’re purple)

I've started to write a poem for you

But nothing rhymes with purple

Unless you go with slurple,

Or chortle, turtle, warble, girdle

Or a slew of other rhyming words

(But this is getting quite absurd)

I would have rather much preferred

To not begin with purple.

Six months with the same blue-eyed guy that still laughs at me, loves me, and makes life better in his own unique way. These are the first few lines of something I tried to write for our anniversary (how strange, to be saying that!), and let me tell you, it goes downhill from there. But I enjoyed myself. ;)

Sunrise

It's difficult to give yourself permission to feel grief.

My grandfather died this morning...well. A lifetime ends in a few shallow breaths in a dark room, sleep fading into night as the sun rises. He was so unhappy these past few years...but every time he said goodbye to me, he always told the story about the first time he held me on. "You were only this big, Lissy, just this big, right on my chest."

Grief is so conflicted, and complicated. How much of it there should be. What it should look like.

Anyway. I was struggling so hard with it, and how to express it, and even what it was. I didn't realize what I was lacking until Ryan found me and wrapped his arms around me--almost, gave me permission to feel that loss, let it go. What an odd and beautiful feeling that is.

Ah, grandpa.

Up

How to start.

I'm so out of practice with writing, it seems, that it takes a good five minutes of contemplation to figure out how to put my thoughts in order. I think I'll start from the middle, if you don't mind. The end will come along soon enough, and if we find a beginning, so much the better--but I'm not going to worry about it.

Being up at 11 pm is pretty terrible, for me. Especially during test week. Today wasn't bad at all, really--I actually finished a 117 question test in about an hour and a half, so my first of the triad was over pretty quickly. However, the headache it left me with is sort of like herpes in that it is the gift that keeps on giving. (Actually, that was a terrible example, especially since I have a housemate whose worst fear in life, after contracting AIDs, is picking up The Herp by accident. I share her disinclination towards it, but the phrase popped into my head and...my fingers kept moving).

Back to the headache, which is why I'm typing in my bed instead of sleeping in it. I don't know why these things happen--one minute I'm answering question after question, starting to relax because I'm guessing well (and no matter what they may say, med school success is based on your ability to guess), and the next...well. Next, I suddenly realize that I feel like I've got my head trapped in a vise.

A two hour nap didn't help. Dinner didn't help, and opting for two (not one, but two) caffeine packed Excedrin, four hours ago, has left me with a raging headache and a lack of ability to go to sleep.

Incidentally, I overhead someone the other day philosophizing on the reasons why people claim to have headaches. I suppose it might be hard to empathize, if you've never had one in your life, but it was an eye-rolling moment to hear him claim that migraines are fallacies created by weak-minded people with low pain tolerance. I dunno, buddy--let's take a drill to your teeth and a hammer to your temples and see how you react, eh?

I suppose the end of this is that I don't know what to do. It's past miserable, by this point. I've tried distractions, like talking to Ryan--I've tried reading, but I can't see straight--watching TV, but it hurts worse--and sleep eludes me. And studying is impossible.

Perhaps I'm building empathy for people with chronic pain, because I can't imagine if this were an everyday thing. They try and teach us how to do that, here--how to understand people by putting yourself in their shoes. I don't think you can, really, unless you've experienced something similar. It's not something you can fake or simulate, and I don't think you should. But with pain, at least, I shouldn't have a problem.

The distraction isn't working. I'm going to try sleeping again...I'm so tired. I don't understand why these happen, but nothing is helping...-sighs-

Goodnight, all.

It's sort of fun being back, circumstances aside.